Relationship Insight Test
Answer honestly. There are no right or wrong answers.
1) IN YOUR DAY - TO - DAY RELATIONSHIP, WHAT TENDS TO HAPPEN MOST OFTEN?
A. Being together, but with attention scattered in many other directions.
B. One person needing more closeness while the other needs more space.
C. Holding back important things to avoid discomfort.
D. Talking things through, but not really knowing how to sustain them.
2) WHEN ROUTINE AND STRESS TAKE OVER, WHAT USUALLY HAPPENS?
A. The relationship slips into autopilot and connection fades.
B. Misunderstandings arise from different emotional rhythms.
C. You avoid difficult conversations to keep the peace.
D. You talk about issues, but nothing really changes.
3) WHEN ONE OF YOU FEELS VULNERABLE…
A. Time and presence don’t always feel like enough.
B. Each person reacts from their own pace and style.
C. It’s hard to put into words what’s truly needed.
D. There is listening, but not always clear direction.
4) AFTER A MOMENT OF TENSION…
A. You move on without looking too closely at what happened.
B. Distance lasts longer than it needs to.
C. Things calm down, but something remains unresolved.
D. You talk it through, but the same pattern returns later.
5) IF YOU LOOK AT THE RELATIONSHIP HONESTLY, WHAT DOES IT NEED MOST RIGHT NOW?
A. More genuine presence in everyday life.
B. A deeper understanding of emotional differences.
C. Greater clarity in expressing each other’s needs
D. A framework to understand why certain dynamics keep repeating.
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